The Mindset Rewiring Hacks That Actually Work …
The Mindset Rewiring Hacks That Actually Work (And Don’t Involve Journaling for Hours)
Because your brain is the blueprint and your beliefs are the building blocks.
Hey again, you.
It’s your fairy godmother… Just playing.
But if you’ve been waiting for a sign that you’re not crazy, broken, or behind … this is it.
I know what it’s like to be the woman doing everything “right”…
Working hard
Budgeting tight
Repeating the mantras you saved from Instagram
And still, somehow, it never feels like enough.
The bills stack.
The nervous system hums in survival.
The freedom you crave? Nowhere in sight.
And in the quiet moments, you whisper: “There has to be more than this.”
Same, love.
And let me tell you, there is.
But not in the way we were taught.
Because the truth?
You’re not broken. You’re not lazy. You’re not “bad with money.”
You’re just building on shaky ground.
You don’t have a motivation problem.
You have a nervous system that’s calling bullshit on your surface-level affirmations.
The dream isn’t too big.
Your subconscious just isn’t on board yet.
And to step into overflow, to rise out of survival, you don’t need to hustle harder.
You need a new root system.
This is the work most women skip.
And honestly?
It’s the work that changed my entire frequency.
Let’s Talk Beliefs.
A limiting belief isn’t just a thought.
It’s a memory. A pattern.
A moment that once protected you… still playing on repeat.
And fuck, half the time it’s not even yours!
They’re hand-me-downs. Passed on by family, society, systems designed to keep you small.
🖤 “Money is hard to find.”
🖤 “To be secure, I need a ‘real job.’”
🖤 “I can’t trust myself to hold more.”
🖤 “I’ll mess it up eventually.”
🖤 “I’m just not good enough.”
They’re not dramatic.
They’re automatic.
But here’s what I’ve learned:
Beliefs aren’t facts.
They’re just thoughts you’ve repeated for too long.
The good news?
Anything repeated can be rewritten.
And anything learned can be unlearned.
Here’s What Actually Rewires Me:
I don’t spend hours in a journal.
I don’t bypass with pretty Pinterest quotes.
I don’t shame myself for not being “positive enough.”
I rewire.
With tools that meet my nervous system where it’s at.
Not where I pretend it is.
Here are the four I return to over and over:
1. The “Why Not Me?” Method
When you feel the spin start, the doubt, the comparison, the collapse, pause.
And ask:
“Why not me?”
“Why wouldn’t it get to be easier?”
“Why couldn’t I be the one who rises now?”
It’s gentle.
But it opens a door.
One that used to feel locked shut.
Pro tip: Use it when envy strikes.
Instead of shrinking, say:
“If she can… so can I.”
That’s not delusion.
That’s recalibration.
2. The “What If This Works?” Flip
Every time your brain whispers:
“What if I fail?”
“What if I embarrass myself?”
“What if I end up worse off?”
You flip it.
“But what if this works?”
“What if I’m the one she remembers?”
“What if this is the moment everything shifts—and I almost let it pass?”
Let that land in your body before your mind catches up.
That’s where real rewiring begins.
3. Ho’oponopono (Sacred, but Sexy)
This Hawaiian healing prayer shifted something deep in me.
I say it to my bank account.
To my doubt.
To the scared, younger version of me who still flinches when it’s time to receive.
Repeat it, gently:
I’m sorry
I forgive you
I Thank you
I love you
Sometimes I whisper it.
Sometimes I scream it in the car.
But every time, I soften.
The roots start to loosen.
That’s the point.
(Thanks to Denise Duffield-Thomas for being this one into my world in her book Get Rich Lucky Bitch)
4. Rewrite the Belief Into Your Truth
Write the thought that’s stealing your power.
And then ask:
“What would I rather believe instead?”
Say it out loud.
Say it again.
Let it become yours.
Example:
Limiting belief: “I’ll always be stuck.”
Reframe: “I’m a woman in motion. My life is shifting already. Abundance is learning to trust me.”
Now you’ve got personalized affirmations, ones that actually feel true.
(Not just “love & light” nonsense that bypasses your fear.)
I do this in combination of number 3… work smarter not harder my love.
Siren Shift:
The old you thought mindset work was fluff.
The new you knows, it’s your frequency.
It’s the difference between…
🖤 Making another “safe” decision out of fear
🖤 Or finally moving in alignment with the woman you’re becoming
That’s power on a cellular level.
And this?
This is just the beginning.
Where I Took It Deeper: Rewired
These four tools?
They're the gateway.
But Rewired?
That’s the embodiment.
Rewired is where I learned to…
🖤 Receive without guilt
🖤 Trust myself with more
🖤 Break the survival spell and let safety come from within
🖤 Understand the age old patterning behind the mind and how to harness it to work for me. Not against.
Because here’s the truth:
Money is neutral.
But you? You’re not.
You’re charged.
You’re layered.
You’re powerful as hell.
And when you meet your money from that place?
Overflow becomes inevitable.
(Available on its own or gifted inside Always & Forever)
No pressure. Just permission.
To move. To feel. To rise.
Yours in secrets and shadows
X
